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Hi, I'm Sage -
it's nice to meet you!

I am a sex & relationship nerd, mentor, coach, healer, multidisciplinary artist, event organizer, self-described weirdo, and science-loving spiritual being who is passionate about helping intellectually-minded folks feel more present, joyful, and at ease in their bodies.  I pride myself on creating space for both the intellectual & the somatic, firmly believing that there is plenty of space for the two to co-exist.

I began my career with a fairly brief but successful stint in the environmental justice non-profit sector. Working as a consultant for a state agency, I facilitated an intersectoral regional climate collaborative in a rural conservative region of California and launched a statewide racial equity focused grant writing initiative. I then transitioned into managing a selective fellowship program where I supervised 15-20 young professionals each year as they undertook specialized projects to establish their budding climate careers. This work allowed me realize that my true passion was supporting folks 1:1 in working toward their individualized goals through a trauma-informed, interdisciplinary, and somatic lens.

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A global pandemic, the end of a six year relationship, the death of my father, and many long days and nights of soul searching later, I took a big risk to follow my heart - quitting my salaried office job to return to school so that I could launch my own private practice as a therapeutic touch & relationship practitioner.

In addition to formal education in the modalities of Surrogate Partner Therapy, Somatic Sex Education, and Sexological Bodywork, I am informed by my personal journey though trauma and healing. My practice is informed by my personal studies of psychology, attachment theory, tantra, kink, yoga, somatic experiencing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), contact improvisation, and ecstatic dance.

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My Identities Include...

I am (a)...

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Trauma Survivor

Leftist

Neurodivergent

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Child of Immigrants

Queer
(Bisexual / Pansexual)

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Non-Binary
(AFAB Femme)

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Polyamorous

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Kinky

Ideas & Quotes That Inspire Me

  • Sex is just the starting point for embracing the profound eroticism in everyday life! (see Uses of the Erotic by Audre Lorde)

  • All bodies are good bodies! (see The Body Is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor)

  • Pleasure is medicine! Embodiment is medicine! (see Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown)

  • Pleasure is the measure! (see Come As You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski)
     

  • “Awareness of what you’re actually experiencing—not an idealized notion of perfection—is the essence of all bodily enjoyment.” - Dr. Jack Morin

  • “Empathy is the antidote to shame” - Brene Brown

  • “You can talk to a psychotherapist about sexual abuse for years, but for intervention on the physical plane, we call on a sacred intimate or erotic shaman. It is in the physical world that the trauma took place and that’s where the healing most effectively takes place.” - Joseph Kramer

  • “Trauma happens to us as humans, and we need other humans to help us unwind it.” - Staci Hanes

  • “Understand that when we touch someone, we touch their entire history, their deepest wounds, their secret identity, their healing powers, and their most profound capacities for joy.” - Caffyn Jesse

SAGE SHALOMOVA

©2024

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